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Disputes and conflicts are very common in our life but sometimes they cause severe problems. It is reported that the conflicts are more among new couples as time is required to understand the behavior of each other. Therefore disputes are very rare in love marriage than arranged marriage. The rate of divorce is increasing rapidly in the world due to lack of understanding among married couples. This ratio is very high in the United States. Therefore the important question is that how to deal with marriage conflicts. It is a very burning issue in the whole world. In developed countries the service of marriage counseling is present to solve the marriage conflicts. It is also called couple counseling in some countries because mostly it is given to new couples. Counseling is very helpful and effective against couple disputes and problems.
Objective of marriage counseling
The main objective of counseling is to solve the general conflicts among the family members and new couples. After marriage several types of disputes arise due to lack of understanding and higher expectations among life partners. Similarly negative communication is also an important factor behind couple disputes. The conflict may also arise among family members. Therefore the service of counseling is designed to fix these problems. The first step of counseling service is to find out the main problem or root of the problem. The marriage counseling is given to affected people by an expert psychotherapist. The promotion of positive communication and good behavior is a part of counseling service. Counseling is required to solve various problems and conflicts. Some of these problems include:
- General behavioral problems
It includes lack of communication and understanding among life partners. Similarly some new couples feel difficulty to adjust to each other’s life style. Therefore new couples are more sensitive to disputes and conflicts. Similarly unspoken, fear and insecurity are also general behavioral problems. Similarly suspicious nature of spouses also causes dispute among life partners therefore this type of behavior should be avoided.
- Interrupting problems
It is a habit of some people to interrupt others while communication. It is not a good habit and common occurrence of this behavior will make the partner angry. Therefore couple counseling can help life partners to fix this problem. Counseling always discourages interrupting behavior because it is not a good habit.
- Lack of affection
Affection is very important for personal relationship. Affection is the act of saying that you like your life partner. Most of the couples have less affection in their relationship. Most of the counselors recommend romantic behavior to fix this problem. Similarly combine dinner and holidays is also beneficial to avoid conflicts. Lifer partners should try to understand each other because it is important. It is also better to express your feelings and thoughts to your life partner. Marriage counseling (we Danes call it vellykket familierådgivning ) encourages affection and romantic behavior because it develops strong relationship (or parforhold problemer as we Danes say)between couples. Therefore new couples should use marriage counseling service in case of any problem. Counseling makes the relationship among the couples stronger and more reliable.
